Wednesday, 1 April 2009

Taking tea together


In the last couple of weeks I am finding my days are following a pattern. My daughter is home from university for the Easter break and together we have been working away at our computers - she is studying for her last exams as she graduates in June and I am putting the final touches on a new book. It is hard to concentrate and stay focused when there are any number of excuses to pack up and go outside - but we promised each other that we would be disciplined and motivated. For me, I find it so much easier working, especially at the computer, in the winter time - there seems to be less distraction. For her, she finds it easier to study at university where she can hide herself in the library and bury herself in books. 

It has been easy to follow our own routines as Mr FF is frequent flying and my other two darlings are off and away doing their own thing, so we have no-one to suit but ourselves. Which brings me to our little tea ritual. Every afternoon we break and drink tea together - we are trying a different leaf tea most days. 

After water, tea is the most popular drink (surprisingly not coffee) and there are four different types which make up the caffeinated teas - black tea, oolong tea, green tea and white tea. The herbals, also known as infusions or tisanes are made from a combination of fruit and herbs.


The French markets are a great place to find teas, especially the infusions. I stick to the non-caffeinated varieties in the afternoon as I am well wired after my morning's intake. Yesterday we drank a delicious blend of lemon verbena with a hint of apple and a touch of cinnamon - normally I prefer straight verbena but the addition of the apple and cinnamon gave it a slightly deeper and more intense flavour. We particularly like the fruit teas - the addition of a little sweetness to our afternoon is a real pick me up. 

We have grown accustomed to our afternoon tea breaks and I relish the quiet moments with her just chatting about nothing much at all or everything that matters. This is such a luxury as time with older children is hard to snatch. She says tea drinking is all win-win; delicious, non fattening and a perfect excuse to spend time together. I think she is spot on.

After you have boiled the kettle and are sipping on your aromatic brew please take a minute to visit Pigtown Design today and learn about April Food Day. It is just as important to work together as it is to take tea together. xv
image 'women taking tea' - google

47 comments:

  1. What a lovely 'tradition' to have started. I love the idea of trying all those different teas and doing it together would be so much fun. My children are all still little, but I hope that I will still be making special memories with them when they are your daughter's age. Wishing your daughter the very best of luck with her final exams (so glad that is all behind me!) and I hope that finshing your book will be a joy and not a trial.
    Clare x

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  2. So lovely! My daughter is 11 and we like to drink tea together too - I love the idea of the infusions and all the flavors! Best of luck on the book and for your daughter's exams!!

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  3. Time with grown up children is so special isn't it? Our middle child now lives in a share house with some university friends, but often drops by and has a 'sleepover' before a big assessment, or when she's just missing her mum and wants to hang out.

    I love this time, and I tell all my friends with younger children that the relationships we build in the early adult years make those stressful 'raising-teenagers' years worthwhile.

    We're big herbal tea drinkers too. We're going to start making more of our own, as I have realised that so many of the dried leaves used in the teas I buy, I actually grown in the garden.

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  4. I need to stop drinking so much coffee and get into the tea ritual too xx

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  5. That tea is BEAUTIFUL... all I see is pre-made tea bags. Sooooo many choices too!
    Good luck writing... and study there... you can BOTH do it... and ENJOY yor tea!
    Fifi
    BTW... I'm glad you liked my landing! Is there any easy place to land near you?

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  6. What a wondeful tradition Vicki, your ritual and relationship with your daughter remind me so much of my Mom. Beautiful memories. Have a great day, I can't wait to read the new book.
    xoxo
    Judith~

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  7. dear vicki...how gorgeous..!!

    I know what you mean about mr FF & others away..

    i have enjoyed my eldest son home for 2 weeks (from qld)...back home again tomorrow..
    BUT we go and have our MORNING breakfast together..
    Me my FLAT white...
    He his HOT CHOCOLATE with marshmallows..
    have relished my two weeks with him..
    xxxx andrea

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  8. What a wonderful, precious daily ritual with your daughter! My green jasmine tea in my limoges cup is my daily little luxury that I always look forward to. Lee :)

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  9. Justine McKinlay1 April 2009 at 10:36

    You have just taken me back a few years with your comments today. When my 4 year old was just a wee thing, I spent a period of time where my then 3 year old (now nearly 7) and I would sit down, have a cup of peppermint tea and listen to a lovely book being read each morning on Radio National. Guess which book it was? Yours! We both loved our little ritual very much.

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  10. As a child with my grand mother we picked our own herbs, fruits...
    Dried it and kept in pretty little sacks decorated with stitched embroidery. I guess it’s very European. I miss it so much. Thank you, Vicky for your lovely story. Tea time with your daughter is so special

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  11. Tea time is definitely one ritual that we picked up on quickly when we moved to England. It's not so much the tea and biscuits for us (though wow, they are good here) as a quiet moment to take a breath in the middle of the day. My husband enjoys his tea breaks too, when he can get them.

    Best of luck to your daughter on her exams and to you on your book! :-)

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  12. Such a lovely ritual for you and your daughter. I'm so happy to hear that you are working on another book, how exciting! Any more details to share...?

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  13. I can't wait to hear more about the new book. Good luck with the writing.

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  14. Vicki - you always write so beautifully. And as an 'adult child' - I too appreciate these quiet times with my parents more so than I ever could have imagined. Can't wait for the new book.

    I love tea, beautiful images x

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  15. Sounds like a perfect afternoon break, Vicki. It's wonderful that you can spend time together and get work done, too. All the best to you both!

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  16. Ahhhh.....you're making me weepy, my son is home in 10 days to study for his first board exam and it will be much the same here. So I will borrow your ritual, otherwise he is going to play havoc with both our schedules, I know this kid! Good luck to your daughter and happy to hear my big question is answered...another book is on it's way.

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  17. I'm looking forward to my daughter coming for a visit next month! We talk on the phone nearly every day, but I still miss her so much.

    I raise my cup of tea to you, as we speak!

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  18. That's lovely. As Michelle said above, isn't it nice to spend time with one's young adult?! We really enjoy our oldest son, now 23; it's fun being a friend as well as a parent.

    When the boys were home, we'd occasionally have tea on Sunday afternoons. But we weren't as disciplined as you--we inevitably succumbed to snackish things as well!

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  19. I just luv trying out different flavors of tea...it's also my fav past time. Wanted to tell you that I posted a lil' something about you today on my 50th post. Just wanted to say "merci" for keeping me inspired!
    -marie

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  20. There is something so delightully civilized about tea time. It seems impossible to hurry through that delicious ritual. One must slow down a bit, just one of the reasons why it is so good for us, I suppose.

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  21. Peach tea is my weakness .... afternoon and early evening my favorite time to just sit and reflect with my mug and my thoughts.

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  22. What a sweet, sweet post...

    Aunt Amelia

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  23. Sounds wonderful...I love tea so much!

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  24. I prefer the petite pastries and the cucumber sandwiches over the tea. But, I prefer champagne to tea.

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  25. absolutely spot on Vicki ! tea breaks are a must...For me it's one of the best moments in a day.
    I converted my Spanish boyfriend to the 5'oclock tea and he now loves it...
    All my best wishes for your new book and your daughter's graduation!
    Bonne semaine...

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  26. What a nice respite from work-and to share special moments with your daughter. I think I may make a little pot of tea now. Your lemon verbena, apple,cinnamon sounds delightful.

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  27. I love this little aside, it is such a nice thing to have tea. I've tagged you in the interior design challenge over at trustyourstyle.com and would love to see your choice(s) if you want to play along.

    xo Mary Jo

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  28. How wonderful to spend such special times with your daughter. I enjoy trying new teas although I never saw many tea vendors at the markets in Paris.

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  29. Oh so excited to see your new book! Hope your enjoying your daughters visit.
    xo - Noel

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  30. Hi Vicki~

    Such beauty in sharing some TEA and LOVELY conversations for a little break in your busy day! I myself am a big Jasmine tea drinker. I wish you and your daughter best luck getting everything finished. I myself can not WAIT for your new book to come out.

    Enjoy your time with your daughter, Miss Kris

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  31. This post makes me miss my mom so much Vicki! I love hearing about what other moms and daughters do together--and this sounds similar to what my mom and I like to do!

    She's coming for a visit in May and I can't wait! Maybe we'll have to have tea :)

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  32. Another lovely post and images! I always enjoy reading about the traditions you do with your children. I remember your perfume post which was very inspiring. My daughter is only four but I hope I do all the lovely rituals that you do with her as she grows. The new book sounds exciting. I cannot wait to get my copy! xx

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  33. My daughter and I have been celebrating her birthday by meeting for high tea for 16 years now, so glad you enjoy it with your daughter.

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  34. Many sighs here in the Adelaide Hills over this post Vicki. How lovely to have to your gorgeous girl to yourself for a moment or two.

    I don't drink tea but do enjoy a quiet drink & quality mother & son bonding time with all the boys whenever I can. Champers for me, a Coopers Pale Ale for them. And a lovely time enjoyed by all!
    Millie ^_^

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  35. How lovely to enjoy some quiet time over tea with the chance to reflect and chat. These are the true luxuries in life I think! My gorgeous girl is only 3, but I hope that as she grows older we shall spend many happy times like this!

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  36. I am so much about the rituals of daily life... every winter I fall back in love with having an afternoon cup of tea as well. After working for hours on a computer I find it such a stress ( and eye ) relieving moment to regroup. Now that both of my kids are in elementary school I've been timing mine after I pick my kids up from school/activities... while they enjoy a snack- I have my tea and we banter back and forth the news of the day.

    Can't wait for your new book!! ( I'll be sure to enjoy it over a cup of tea!)

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  37. I know what you mean Vicki about snatching moments with older children...enjoy it all with your Darling Daughter...Dzintra♥

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  38. Isn't it lovely to have your daughter back. I love time alone with my two daughters. My son does everything at a mile a minute :)
    I wish I liked tea more the leaves can be so much more beautiful than coffee. I bought some camomile tea and am trying like crazy to like it :(

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  39. It is special moment in family's life . I love drink coffee in the morning with my mum ..I can tell her things that I will never say

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  40. What a delightful time to look forward to after a day of diligent work.

    Enjoy the rest of your week with your daughter Vicki!

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  41. Ahh yes, mint tea is my favorite, but lemon verbena sounds refreshing as well.
    Tea time with your daughter, those are cherished moments.
    If you have time, stop by. Kari and Kijsa and myself are having a "Doors to Adore" party April 7th.
    Hoping for some great spring door ideas.
    Have a wonderful day!
    Darlene

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  42. Even though I like coffee, tea brings a different 'sense' to the cup, like an event, not just a quick jolt.

    lovely photo btw.

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  43. how very lovely that you and your daughter can share special moments together! I look forward to such a time with my two girls, 11 and 5.

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  44. I love the idea of spending time in this way. You are comfortably working with your daughter nearby and you know that you will get together soon for tea. It makes the time special...and later when you have tea and she's off to school the smell of tea will remind you of the time you spent together. I read that the French drink tea -tinture (?)-in the evening...was it infusions?...and that a way to have something low (n0) calorie before bed. I hope you let us know more information about your book. Thanks for sharing a bit of your life...and may the completion of both deadlines bring you and your daughter joy. <3

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  45. I like this post :) tea breaks and the best interval when you're working. (even better if you have cake too haha)

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  46. Nothing more perfect than working side by side with your daughter and stopping for a spot of tea together in the afternoon.
    x Trina
    Ps- I like how over there you still call it Easter break..here it is now spring break.

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  47. Lovely, lovely post, Vicki. I agree your daughter is spot on, and love the image of the two of having a nice cup of tea together.

    We arrived in Washington, D.C. today to spend a few days with my son, who graduated from uni last May. I miss him when we're in Sydney. Time with 'our' young people is so precious.

    Good luck to your daughter on her exams!

    Cheers.

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