Tuesday, 2 August 2011

when dreams of paris come true..twinkly stars....and a gift for you..


I am a believer that dreams do come true if you want them badly enough. That's the romantic in me....some would say it's not a practical way to think, that those kinds of thoughts can lead to disappointment and discouragement but I don't buy that. Dreams, desires, wishes... these are the things that keep us creating and moving forwards...these visions set us apart, they make us unique and they ensure we are always engaged with our ever changing world. I say follow your dreams with passion and determination...and that is what jewellery designer Cate Rubenstein did... 
Cate emailed me some months ago to introduce me to her designs...like all girls I love a jewel and the mere mention of that 5 letter word saw me clicking on her site pronto. Her Moonshined Designs are gorgeous and her philosophy on jewellery making resonated with me....Cate says, 


"Each piece is made by hand, using old-world European techniques and attention to detail, plus only the finest materials available - as I don't believe in wasting time or effort on half-measures that won't stick around. I am designing things to last, not trendy or cheap pieces, but design to be passed down, and cherished"


 Moonshined pieces are stunning, there are many that I covet like this, this and this and that my girls would adore, but more than that I was enchanted by Cate's dream of creating her jewellery, of expanding and finding buyers in Europe and ultimately being able to relocate to Paris...Cate and I continued chatting and recently she emailed me with exciting news...her dream was coming true and she was moving to Paris. I, lover-of-a-dream-come-true story immediately wanted to know more....


" It's a dream come true for me. I haven't really spoken about this much before, but the very first time I visited France when I was a very young girl, I said to myself, "One day I'm going to live here." and now, I finally am. There have been so many times it didn't seem life was going to let that happen... but I realized it's the promises we make ourselves that are sometimes the most important, so I never forgot and this was in the back of my mind. Every time I was in Europe for business (my prior career was International Film Marketing), I managed to sneak through France somehow, for even just a couple days.. Paris or the South, wherever... just could never get enough of the lifestyle, working to improve my language skills, and the tremendous beauty. I believe for visual people, there is no place better on earth than France.
When I launched my line, my secret hope was that somehow, against all odds, I would end up moving to Paris to design. A month after I launched, the line started getting attention in Europe... I was invited to shows over there as the only non-European... in a dream state, it seemed!... then did Paris Fashion Week in January, and that's when it really cemented. I had no idea if they would like my designs or not, but was shocked, thrilled and delighted beyond belief that buyers in France were interested in importing my line, only it costs so much to import from the states... it makes more sense to import ME! And of course, there is no greater compliment on earth than to have one's designs appreciated by the French, who are of course, world leaders in all things beautiful and charming. France seduced me a long time ago, and it's only now that I'm making it official. When I pick up my visa in a couple weeks that allows me French residency, it will be one of the happiest days of my life, and a  long-time dream come true. My designs are all inspired by travel, moments, and memories... and being in paris full time surrounded by so much beauty and history and culture, while being centrally located to so many other wonderful countries to visit, will provide boundless inspiration, creativity and love essential to good and consistent design. "



Cate has very generously offered me a pair of her beautiful sterling silver etoile earrings(they were part of the red carpet celebrity gifting for the Emmys in Hollywood) to give to my readers...and I promise I will give them away...as much as I would be tempted to keep them....they are for you. It seemed timely and just the right thing to celebrate Cate's move to Paris (I love nothing more than a story that involves jewels, France and dreams coming true) and the success of her Moonshined Designs with my 3 year blog-iversary...Three years has come and gone since I wrote my first post on French Essence and in many ways it feels like three minutes. I can't thank all of you enough for the brilliant comments and wonderful emails...Your wit, your savvy, your inspiration.. it is your energy and your interactions that have given this blog it's reason for being...


Please leave me a comment so I know you know, subscribe or follow French Essence if you would like to be in the drawing for these very pretty etoile earrings...if you are already a follower or a subscriber....then you need do nothing more, you will automatically be entered...I will announce the winner next week...Visit Cate's Moonshined Designs or link to her Facebook page to mention these divine baubles...


xv


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86 comments:

  1. I am also a true believer that your dreams come true if you want them badly enough. Never cease to pursue your dreams. Lovely giveaway, but unfortunately I can't wear earrings.
    Ada

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  2. Hello Vicki

    I would like to say:

    I am relatively new to my own blogging.
    I have admired your blog from afar and not commented until I started my own blog.

    I take my hat off to you and congratulate you.
    3 years is a long time of blogging - but to do it so well and not miss a beat for the reader - to entertain the reader and entice to come back - well that takes real talent!

    Happy "birth/blog-day" have a little french bubbles to celebrate :)
    and eat like a french woman and exercise like an australian woman. (I read that from someone I admire :)

    take care and I hope I can now lead my own example like you continue to lead yours.

    x

    Loulou

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  3. Good Morning Vicki

    I totally agree with you on dreams and keeping a positive attitude.

    I am delighted for Cate and wish her success beyond her wildest dreams.

    I adore your blog and wishing you many more years of success.
    Love Helenxx

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  4. Good morning Vicki!

    Lovely post; I think we are all attracted to the lIGHT and the magic it brings us. I surely evokes dreams of wonder in me, and this is a lovely post. THANK YOU!!! Anita

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  5. What pretty celestial earrings..I have to say if I am blessed to win these I will share them with my Goddaughter, Aurora, who is named after the Aurora Borealis :-)Merci Beau Coup

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  6. What a brilliant story...but so true-keep your dreams/wishes and eventually they do happen!
    Mine was to study Art when I had to drop it at the age of thireteen to study more academic subjects. Now, after ten years part-time study AS level. Foundation diploma and now a BA) I have just graduated with a first :-)
    Very best of luck to Moonshined designs....oh and by the way stars have been my symbol throughout some tough times trying to attain my dream..........

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  7. I would love to win Cate's star earrings because they would be so full of meaning for me - a dream come true shall we say? My life at the moment is entwined in a dream to survive and have "something even better." Some time ago, I started a direct sales opportunity and it turns out that I am a "STAR" director with this company. All is fitting because in this awful economy I was forced to redesign my life - having lost my job 18 months ago. Now, without insurance and steady income, I am trying to put a foundation under my dreams of a more enriching daily life with a wonderful company (with a French connection) - so that I will have "something even better."

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  8. What a beautiful story! The earrings are indeed beautiful.

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  9. What an inspiring story that dreams do come true - fabulous! thank you Vicky! ;-)

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  10. What a lovely post and I'm wishing really hard for those gorgeous earrings!! On another note, be careful what you wish for, because wishes can come true, and as Truman Capote said, 'there are more tears shed over answered prayers than unanswered ones'. Sometimes its good just to have the dream....

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  11. I have just subscribed! Oh, her story resonates with me and if I were younger I would definitely investigate moving to France. I have been to Paris only once and I cannot wait to go again. I am of French Canadian descent so there may be something that is innate that is being called home :-) Not that I expect to win such a great giveaway (my score so far is 0 out of ~150), but how appropriate if I were to be so lucky - my maiden name is L'etoile !! Thanks for sharing Cate's wonderful dream come true!

    Wanda in NH

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  12. Happy 3rd Blogiversary! I look forward to your daily post and your daily click, as well. I love the star earrings! Maybe I'll be the lucky winner!

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  13. Bon chance chère Cate! What a wonderful story. Thank you for sharing it Vicki!
    V

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  14. Vicki,
    I love your post today and indeed it is so important to dream. I dreamed too that one day I would live as a Parisian - for me it was two weeks but I still feel as though I fulfilled that small dream...I have many and I am still following them...lovely x

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  15. What a sweet give away. And congrats on your 3 year anaversary!!!
    Xxx callie

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  16. When I found your blog I knew I had discovered a kindred spirit. So moved by your story about Cate and her jewelry and move to Paris I had to share this little anecdote. For my entire life, even as a child, I studied French style. Clothing, cooking, decor etc. were all in my sights. A few years ago, as a Christmas gift, my husband took me to France. April in Paris, enough said! To this day I recall with absolute clarity the moment we entered Paris, at night, with the lights on in the Eiffel Tower, the tears rolled down my face...I didn't even realize. The people with us thought I was a wacko. They had no idea! So, dreaming, hoping, planning, and working for this goal makes absolute perfect sense to me. And by the way, the earrings and Cate's other pieces are simply stunning!

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  17. Vicki, we agree with you. A person's dreams and desires of their heart are what keep them motivated and creative. Not to have a dream and working towards that dream would be so sad.
    Congratulations on 3 years!
    Angela and Renee

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  18. I can't believe it's been three years since you started the blog. Thanks for all the inspiration and loveliness -- this story is the perfect way to mark your "blog-iversary" -- so lovely to read a story about dreams coming true. A perfect reminder for a Monday morning.

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  19. Hello Vicki, great post. To stop dreaming is to stop. Living for me. Congrats on your three year anniversary and a thanks for all the dreams you have shared with us along the way.

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  20. Oh how lovely for Cate to have her wish come true. The more one writes the miracles down the more they materialize. Vicki you are such a wordsmith + happy 3rd year. I am truly blessed to be following you. xxpeggybraswelldesign.com

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  21. You have such a wonderfully blessed outlook! Congratulations on three years of blogging. That is just so awesome! This is such a great giveaway.

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  22. Congratulations on your 3 year anniversay! If I am blessed to win such a lovely giveaway I will be sure to share with my Goddaughter who is named after the Aurora Borealis! Merci Beaucoup!

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  23. Those earrings are so beautiful! I really connected with her story. It is my dream to move to France someday as well. Luckily, I am young enough now to have time to do so--the question is just when and how....

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  24. Lovely and inspiring.
    What a thoughtful gift.
    I'm tickled to enter!

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  25. Congratulations on your 3rd Anniversary! The earrings and other jewelry items on the site you wrote about are really beautiful! Thank you for holding the give-away contest! Have a great day!~Leena~

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  26. Happy Birthday to your blog! And for sharing with us the Moonshiner's dream. It's a beautiful story. Maybe those stars will make me as lucky as she is! I love France too.

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  27. What a wonderful, wonderful story! Thank you for sharing Cate's dream come true. It gives me hope as I wish and wish and work and wait for my own dream of moving to Paris comes true!

    And congratulations on your blog anniversary. It's really a gift to me, a slice of beautiful to my day. Thank you.

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  28. Her jewelry is stunning and so simple (right up my alley as I'm not into big, gaudy jewelry) and I would love to wear those star earrings. I actually have a star tattoo on the back of my neck, because I believe in the same philosophy -- that dreams can come true -- and I don't think it's wishy washy at all! :) xx

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  29. Je suis une grande rêveuse et j'approuve les tiens...
    Je lève mon verre à l'occasion de votre 3ème anniversaire... Champagne please!
    gros bisous

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  30. Love hearing stories about dreams coming true. I have had my heart set moving into a building where I can live above my studio. My house has been on the market for almost 2 yrs. so once in awhile my resolve weakens. Thanks for the encouragement. I follow you religiously. Love your posts.

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  31. My husband and I are big believers in following your dreams. Some of our best ones have come true.

    The earrings are lovely. You are so generous to part with them. I'm a long time, devoted follower.
    Sam

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  32. "When you wish Upon a Star" Jiminny Cricket!.. Lovely earrings and beautiful jewelry..

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  33. Just moved home having lived in Europe for 12 years. I've lived my dream and love hearing about others living theirs :)

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  34. Vicki how truly wonderful. I am sure you have been a great inspirarion to Cate! She has accomplished so much!

    We do we to to look forward to if not our dreams!?

    xoxo
    Karena

    Art by Karena

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  35. I love when dreams come true . Her jewellry is very elegant . Less is more

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  36. This is such a sweet post. Yes, I'd agree that moving to Paris, even for a few weeks, would be a dream come true.

    Mandy

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  37. All of life first comes from dreams. Walt Disney built one of the world's largest corporations based on, 'When You Wish Upon a Star.' Einstein--Time's Man of the 20th Century said-'There are two ways of being....believing that everything is a miracle, or that nothing is.' And of course physics proves that the entire universe is made from electromagnetics--the stuff of stars.

    Terrific post!! Had me smiling and DREAMING...

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  38. Vicki ~ congratulations on three magnificent years of incredible blog posts! truly, you offer inspiration with every word you share. it's no secret, i'm a huge fan of yours and will remain a loyal reader for as long as you decide to write your beautiful words here {or anywhere for that matter}.

    loved this follow-your-dreams-story-come-true! there is nothing more rewarding than achieving your dream destiny.

    bisous,
    melissa

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  39. I have been a follower for ages but seeing those lovely ear rings and reading your story about dreams coming true resonated, I feel as if I am coming out of the end of a tunnel, one I didnt think I would come out of, and stars were there, at the end. I now dare to dream again, perhaps that last visit to Paris next year, when a few weeks ago, all seemed over, We need our dreams and hopes or all is lost.
    Thank you .

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  40. Congratulations! I am a follower but made it "official" today thru GFC. Deb chedeb5353@hotmail.com

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  41. I am an old follower! Please enter me for a chance to win and thanks for hosting the contest! GFC follower (Shirley)

    riverboat38(at)hotmail(dot)com

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  42. Congratulations on your blog birthday! The earrings are beautiful! Dreams are so important and they really can and do come true!

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  43. What a lovely story Vicki, so wonderful to read someones path to their dreams, an inspiring start to the day. Im off to her site now and it will be a far more personal experience now that I know a bit more about her - thankyou for the introduction !!

    Those etoile earrings are gorgeous - fingers crossed !!

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  44. Three years Vicki...I say drink some moonshine, adorn yourself in lots of beautiful moonshined designs and have a party! Another inspiring post...it makes me wish I was with you from the very beginning. So happy I jumped on this crazy blogging bandwagon... What fun we have!

    Best wishes Vicki and many thanks for your note. :)

    Jeanne xxx

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  45. Vicki...I am a Californian who has fallen in love with Paris, the different regions of France and your beautiful photographs, inspirational story of expat life in St Remy and great stories of Mr. FF and the now grown up children. You are living much of my dream in France while I have lived it out as a bicoastal in the US. If I could have used the internet to express the surprises, challenges and joys of moving across America over 40 years, I would have been "on it". Believe it or not, I used the post office to communicate with friends and family because "long distance calls" were thought to be expensive in the 60s! My Mr. FF and kids surrounded me with inspiration. So did the beauty and soul of the communities we enjoyed as much as you do St Remy, with side trips to all those Paris, Corsica and Italy sites. Your writing and photography has inspired me to keep journaling with photos and notes recording my 'seventy-somethings' years with fresh eyes. I never travel without WiFi and I read you almost every morning wherever I am: Mill Valley, California, San Francisco, Paris, San Miguel de Allende, Mexico and hopefully next year Southeast Asia... Thanks so much and Congratulations on 3 years of keeping me curious and enchanted ! Just got back from 2 perfect weeks living in an apartment on the Canal St Martin..Saw "Midnight In Paris' at the Odeon. Bliss!!! Keep following your dreams!

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  46. Having dreams, believing them passionately, seeing them come to pass in your mind and taking baby steps every day towards them in whatever ways we can. All these things I believe in, Vicki. I'm over the moon for Cate. And her work is gorgeous. Her Superpowers in the descriptions are a lovely part of the whole package. Thank you for introducing me to Cate and her work.

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  47. Congratulations Vicki - I have long been a fan of your writing and image choices. I enjoy the tastes of gorgeousness you show here and these jewels are stunning. Without our dreams we are nothing.

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  48. Of couse all dreams come true and if they dont you need to wish alot harder xx

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  49. I am a regular follower. I also love a "dream come true" story. Please enter me for a chance to win! Thanks!

    jkg4121@att.net

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  50. Congratulations on your third anniversary and thanks for the giveaway!

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  51. True, true, true!
    Sweet things, thanks for the link!

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  52. Dear Vicki,
    Is it only 3 years? You've been so successful at blogging that I assumed you had been doing it forever. Bravo to you. And what a charming story to celebrate this anniversary. Dreams do come true and I am so thrilled and excited for Cate. Her work is beautiful and I wish her much success with her move to France.

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  53. Dearest Vicki,

    Congratulations on your three-year blogging anniversaire. This, like all the other adventures on which you've embarked on, has proved a wonderful and enriching experience for us all.
    Here's to dreams, and stars, and all things twinkly.
    Cheers, Alcira

    nerochronicles.com

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  54. What a sweet story! Living in Paris has always been my dream as well and through the grace of God that's what i'm doing! Bravo et bon courage!

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  55. Loving this post, Vicki. Congratulations on your three years, writing a blog is so much more than we thought when we started, isn't it? Inspirational, fulfilling, a way to connect with friends from all over the world.

    Dreams that come true, and the desire to fill our lives with beauty and laughter, who could wish for more?

    Thank you for introducing us to Cate, her work is indeed lovely and gorgeous! Wishing you a happy sun drenched week in your France.xoxo Lidy

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  56. It's great you're celebrating and highlighting other dream makers. We can all be inspired by these determined people.

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  57. Dear Vicki,
    Just like you I also live in France. Not that far away either. Toghether with my family I live in beautifull Aix en Provence.
    Unlike Cate, for me it was the other way around. It was work that brought me and my husband to France.
    So after time passed we fell in love with it more and more! And still everyday if we take a promenade through Aix we feel very fortunate to be here.

    I never dreamed of living in France, but somehow unexpected it is a dream come true!

    I am very happy for Cate that her wish finally came true.
    And for Cate: Bienvenue en France!

    X Chantal

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  58. I enjoy your writing so much. Pretty photo and pretty earrings, too.

    Happy Anniversary,
    Deborah

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  59. Vicki, I always love your posts and this one is just beautiful--dreams are the most important thing and of course, you struck near my heart because I am such a believer in designing and creating quality pieces meant to last a lifetime and be handed down. Congratulations on three years of blogging! It has been such a pleasure to get to know a bit of your life via your blog.

    xo Mary Jo

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  60. What a beautiful story and a wonderful heartfelt celebration of your friend's success and happiness. That would be the most incredible thing to happen. Maybe I should start dreaming a little harder about the possibility of moving to Europe. Yes, I agree with a comment your friend made "for those who truly love beauty there is not other place like France". Yes.

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  61. Vicy,
    Practical people are boring.. yvonne

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  62. Send your dreams out to the universe and they will come true - maybe when you least expect them to happen!

    All the best, Katie from
    www.westiejulep.blogspot.com

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  63. Happy Anniversary to you and your divine Blog Vicki. I make it part of my morning routine to visit you, and you never fail to put me on a smiley path for the day...from one Francophile to another..x

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  64. I do believe one's dreams can come true, my friend......but.....along with the dream MUST BE hard work to make one's dream happen.

    Hugs,

    Jo

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  65. Happy Boithday!

    Not terribly French, but Happy Birthday/Anniversary, maaate!

    I just checked out Moonshined Designs and I particularly love the Skull and Bones bracelet and the Gun earrings! In face I love most of her designs. I don't often wear jewellery but I would definately wear Cate's designs. Something about the Simplicity. The Narrative that accompanies it. Very Cool. Just like You.

    Cheers :)

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  66. You have provided me so much inspiration over the last two years since I found your blog. My 80 year old mother now is also a subscriber and we are planning to go to St. Remy in Sept of this year. Doesn't get much better than that. Dreams do come true indeed. And maybe I will be wearing new earrings on the trip :)

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  67. What a dream for Cate! Congrats! xxx

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  68. How amazing for Cate! As a jewelry designer with a similar dream myself, I'm in awe and inspired! Best to you both!

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  69. This Vickie says hi and thanks for all the great posts. I enjoy them so much - as I did this one! Wishes DO come true!

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  70. What a lovely post and thank you for sharing Moonshined Designs. Reading about dreams-come-true stories are a true inspiration. Thank you!

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  71. They are beautiful earrings Vicki, and you have brought stars into my life!!

    xoxo

    Karena
    Art by Karena

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  72. What a wonderful, positive and inspiring post, and how magical that somebodys dream is coming true. Cates designs are simple and beautiful, and i would love to be enteretd into your giveaway please for a chance to win these beautiful earrings.
    Gill xx

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  73. Vickie, for me you capture the french essence perfectly with every blog entry. When I see your blog name in my inbox I eagerly click knowing I will be enthralled, captivated,challenged and warmed by your charm in writing, decorating,collecting, and teaching us about all things FRENCH!

    Happy Blogging Anniversary. Delightful giveaway. Please enter me.

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  74. This was indeed a moving post, and the earrings are absolutely lovely.

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  75. Vicki, I was introduced to your blog by a close friend, also called Vicki, while I was on a trip home to South Africa last month! I am currently living in Ireland. She had bought your book after a trip to France and discovered the joys of French Esssence.
    Your writing and pics are an absolute treat! You have inspired me in so many ways and it is a real joy to share your appreciation of all that is beautiful, stylish and elegant! Happy three year anniversary!
    Anna

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  76. May I be entered in the giveaway for the earrings from the your very talented friend? Thank you, French Essence ~~~~ *****

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  77. The stars look like fairy lights.

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  78. I would love love love to be considered................"when you wish upon a star........ YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE!! "

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  79. Hello, thank you for sharing Cate's dream. I'm a stay at home mom trying to launch a jewelry business and its very nice to hear stories of other people's dreams coming true. As you can imagine, launching your own business is never an easy thing and one needs every encouragement! I hope my dream of a having a successful business comes true too!

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  80. Hi Vicki, You always brighten my day with your beautiful finds. Yours is my favorite blog. xoxoxoxo Thank you for beign there. ~ Patti

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  81. I am a new and happy follower of French Essence. It makes my day. I sing 'twinkle twinkle little star' to my girls everyday and these gorgeous earrings remind me of that!

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  82. Merci! I love my connection with France through your pictures and beautiful words. Never stop dreaming!

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  83. Thank you so very much for always providing beautiful photos. I wish to visit France someday and your blog helps me to think about my wish often.
    Tammy

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  84. Vicki what a moving and beautiful dream and story. I love your posts and this is my favorite yet... we all need dreams to come true! Congratulations to you on three successful years, and félicitations to Cate on following her star!

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  85. and now that the giveaway is over.. let me just say a GROS MERCI a Vicki again for this absolutely amazing introduction to so many of you, and for really capturing the magic in how I feel about all of this coming true. Vicki, I could not be more flattered to be a small part of your 3 year anniversary, and I hope you will be writing beautiful, inspiring pieces for many, many years to come!

    To those of you who said such lovely things about my move to France- both here and on the facebook page- bless you. I am very happy, and hardly believe it's true. :) I appreciate all your bon mots and encouragement, and will do my best to keep it going the right direction!

    Merci encore, chère Vicki!!! merci mille fois!!
    xxx
    Cate

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  86. ooh I love a happy story isn't that fantastic I must go take a peek at the other jewlery now :)

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