There is one little ritual I have when I come back to London and that is to meet one of my very best friends in Chinatown for yum cha. London's Chinatown is not that special in terms of Chinatowns around the world - for example, it is nowhere near the size of the one in Sydney and has far fewer restaurants and shops. I am partial to Chinatown because it reminds me of home and the scents and tastes of Asia. Growing up in Australia and in particular Sydney, as I did, Asian food becomes a regular part of culinary life and consequently my taste buds crave a healthy dose of spice every so often.
I have eaten 'Chinese food' ever since I can remember. As a little girl my parents would take me on a Saturday night to a restaurant in Sydney's Chinatown - this was quite unconventional way back in the day. As a student we always searched out the cheapest and the best 'Chinese' for our nights out. In the last ten years Thai food has probably given my Chinese love a bit of a nudge, followed closely by Vietnamese cuisine, but there is nothing quite like a yum cha. The original Cantonese meaning for the term, 'yum cha' or 'drinking tea' has changed; 'yum cha' refers to a meal that serves many small portions of different foods. It is customary to wash these dim sum or dumplings down with tea, as tea is thought to be an aid for the digestion.
London's Chinatown is in the area of Soho, just near Shaftesbury Avenue and my friend and I always meet at the New World Restaurant. Every now and then we go somewhere different but ultimately we return here. This is no smart venue and has the decor you imagine - red velour furnishings, red patterned carpet, hanging lanterns, tropical fish and indoor plants. Girls in black and white uniforms push around the trolleys of dim sum and others pour bottomless cups of green tea. We eat the same thing every time - I seem to be partial to the barbeque pork buns (always the bad one....) whereas my friend is a lover of the prawn and chive dumplings. The New World is what some would describe as 'cheap and cheerful' and is always packed. Often we lament the paper serviettes and tablecloths, sloppy cups of tea and breakneck speed at which the food arrives but it is our place and when a place is your place, well.... it is your place.
Lunch is followed by a visit to the supermarket. This is a trap for all young players - the Loon Fung is filled with so many exotic goodies. The fact that I cannot read the labels or understand the purpose of most of these oriental foods does nothing to lessen the attraction - the packaging is entirely seductive and my adventurous taste has led me to some excellent purchases and some fairly strange ones. I am gradually learning to behave (to exert some willpower) and can successfully report that I am more and more able to leave the more flamboyant products on the shelves for those who know what to do with them.
One thing I never leave Loon Fung without is a box of Jasmine Tea, actually several, as I like to stock up for France. Why would I carry this ordinary tea all the way to France when I can buy so many wonderful loose leaf teas there? (I am sure the security officials at the airport ponder on this when my bag is checked.) No reason, other than it is my favourite cuppa and that drinking this tea has become a part of my morning ritual. Why do I eat in a restaurant that is probably nowhere near as good as the one across the road or down the street? Because it is about the familiar and the comfort that comes with that. I love walking in and knowing that my sweet friend will be there to greet me, that we will chat and catch up on all our news, that we can share our woes if need be and that we can laugh together - in that way that only gal pals can.
Rituals or habits can often be mistaken for boring... and that can be a mistake, because more often than not habit is about happiness, xv.
Hi Vicki,
ReplyDeleteI like how you say Habit is about Happiness, that is such a wonderful way to look at our sometimes strange habits and routines (speaking for myself here). See, I feel better now, it's all about another perspective, and you do that so well! restaurant sounds perfect.
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I love this line, "Rituals or habits can often be mistaken for boring... and that can be a mistake, because more often than not habit is about happiness". Really nicely said.
ReplyDeleteComforting post, thank you for sharing. It makes me long for a visit to San Francisco's Chinatown for some dim sum. I really liked this post and the essence of that wonderful Chinatown feeling and of course, the sweet smell of lovely Jasmine tea!
ReplyDeleteOne of my stops in NYC is Pearl River Mart. It used to be located on Canal Street in Chinatown, with its entryway hidden between two stalls... heaven forbid if you went into the wrong entrance! It was allegedly the largest Chinese department store outside of China.
ReplyDeleteNow they've relocated to a posh spot on Broadway and have lost some of their grittieness (and their appeal to me!). But I still always stop there.
This makes me smile...It's the rituals like this that I so deeply miss here in the U.S. Thanks for sharing such happiness!
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Your posts are such a treat. Always a story, and a message that makes me think and think. I love what you said about habits in the end. So very true.
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oh yuuuuuummy...this sounds so good to me! I love Chinese food and my daughter in law is Chinese so we find out about all kinds of treasures...none slimming but who cares, life is too short to miss out on the pleasures of a good pork bun~
ReplyDeleteyou make me want to make a trip to SF Chinatown...one of the best, I am told...I also enjoy the shopping, so many goodies for so little money (sometimes!)
blessings...and 3 gold coins for good measure!
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ReplyDeletei am a creature of habit as well.
i order the same dishes ( over and over - for years )
whenever i go to certain restaurants.
rituals & habits, have always been a way to comfort myself.
and i have always needed that.
i don't dig 'change' all that much!
let's face ,it just makes me feel more secure in some way.
lovely post....
memory-lane CAN be GOOD!!
XXX
The small rituals of life always give me great comfort.... . a reminder of the luxury of choosing "my way" -
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Absolutely...comfort food for the soul is what I call it! We used to love going to Chinatown when we lived in NY. The place we habited was nothing great...in fact probably run down to most...but to us served the best food ever in little bowls passed around. Total comfort for us.
ReplyDeleteWhat a nice lunch date for you and your friend. I am suddenly rethinking tonight's dinner.
ReplyDeleteoh you make me yearn for dim sum, lacquered duck and all these savory delicious dishes !
ReplyDeleteenjoy it all Vicki !
Hi Vicki! Cute title on this post...it's a great story and I never leave without having a sip of jasmine tea myself. Helps thin out the sometimes greasiness of chinese food.
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I loved this post...
ReplyDeleteI was nodding my head in agreement as I read - any ritual involving friends, food, tea...can only be good for you!
Hope you have a great "fin de semaine"..:)
I know what you mean. My husband and I have a favourite Mexican restaurant that we frequent. The owners know us, know where we like to sit and what we generally order. It is a charming family-run place, and the food is delicious, but the familiarity is what keeps us coming back.
ReplyDeleteI ususally stock up on Horlick's Light Chocolate Malt when I'm in the UK. Unfortunately that is nowhere to be found in the US!!
Vicki, your writing is so warm and inviting I feel as if you've taken us all out for yum cha. Thank you for sharing one of your favourite rituals. Meredith xo.
ReplyDeleteI miss London and Chinatowns in general. You make me feel like I’ve come back for a visit – thanks!
ReplyDeleteHi Vicki~
ReplyDeleteYour London Chinatown sounds Yummy!!! More importantly is... your time and ritual with a dear FRIEND! I can see how it mean HAPPINESS to you! As I would feel the same. Next week my parents are going to San Francisco's Chinatown...perhaps they can stick me in one of their suitcases! For a new ritual...hehe
Lovely Post! ~Miss Kris~
How great...I love Chinatown not been for a while ..I have never eaten there, so many to choose from , I go to a shop when there and buy Rambutans..http://www.rambutan.com/..you cannot find them in many places at all...remind me of when we used to live in Singapore as a child..my father was in the British forces, we had Rambutan tree in our garden, if you couldn't find us...just look up the tree!!!
ReplyDeleteit's amazing what humans can adjust to so i absolutely agree that habits do not make happiness. good habits, however, can put you in a place to recognize happiness when it crosses your path.
ReplyDeleteThis is such a lovely story, I thoroughly enjoyed it! I too have a Chinese restaurant in Beverly Hills (not the chic part, more on the wrong side of the tracks--literally and toward very unchic mid-town. Anyway, there is something so comforting about its tackiness and it was my favorite for take-out for years. I love your story about bringing tea back too. So wonderful the small things in life!
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A lovely post! I too have bought unknown foods in Asian markets with similar mixed results -- the tiny dried fish glazed with sugar were not a success with my family.
ReplyDeletedearest vicki..i apologise for my lack of blogging messages lately...(been visiting son in qld..furniture shopping..YES!!)..
ReplyDeleteanyway...Sydney is fantastic for its chinese../yum cha etc..on my last visit tried to get into Kylie Kwongs gorgeous cute little restaurant..BUT NO LUCK..the line up extended for miles!!! (not quite)..
BUT HEY good old MELBOURNE towns chinese area..& restaurants are fantastic as well..!!
wonderful to be able to zip between france & england with the blink of an eye..
OH well..i can do the same between here and TASSIE!!
xx andrea
I want to eat chinese food tonight .
ReplyDeleteI love what you say about habits
The best dim sum is in Hong Kong! My family goes yam cha every other week, yumm!
ReplyDeleteLiterary translation of dim sum means 'a little bit of heart'. My favorites are Sui Mai and Har Gau with Jasmin tea.
Vicki, come to HK, I'll take you for best dim sum here!
Irina
PS from Irina
ReplyDeletemy husband is Chinese American who was born and grew up in Hong Kong. He speaks Cantonese so it makes it easier to order in a restaurant :-)
True confession time here Vicki - I could forego all the savoury treats & go straight to those delicate little egg custard tarts. Still warm from the oven, the flaky pastry so crisp & delicous, I can never stop at just one.
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful your parents introduced to the joy of Chinese cuisine at such a young age. Growing up in the country, my first experience with Chinese food was cooking Sweet & Sour Pork (complete with Golden Circle pineapple pieces!) from the Women's Weekly Cooking Class Cookbook as a new bride in 1977!
Millie ^_^
I love all that you share.
ReplyDeleteI love all things from the Orient
Hello Vicki,
ReplyDeleteChinese food has never been high on my list although I do love Thai. But friends used to love Poons restaurant and would go frequently! Glad you enjoyed your trip.
You're so right, habit is definitely about happiness. I have never been to a Chinatown but would love to explore. I may have to take the plunge next time I'm in London. COngrats on POD. :D
ReplyDeleteOh, you are inspiring me to go visit my dearest friend-(California to Washington, D.C.)and pick up our long established habit of coffee in her kitchen with long chats (and love) about everything and anything. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteI must say I really like London's Chinatown, but that's probably because the only other one I've seen was in NYC so I can't really compare.
ReplyDeleteThis is a lovely post, so much detail and beautiful description.
And you're right, rituals can be good. They make us feel safe.
I've had the best dim sum while visting Hong Kong. There was a restaurant that overlooked the harbor and they just kept wheeling by these carts of dim sum. I was so stuffed by the time we left.
ReplyDeleteNow I am so craving some steamed dumplings!
ReplyDeleteYour post was like a warm cup of tea. Cozy. Spot on.
Have a wonderful day!
Beautiful description dear Vicki! For me too it is all about rituals, and habits. I still love the Americanized version of Chinese food, there is a healthy version if you can believe, and that only because my friend and I would go there together...
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Design Cracker See!! said...I too found it comforting. These rituals are a part of who we are and for me one is going with my best friend evey year to Stanley Park and kicking piles of leaves over or just standing awestruck at the colors. These moments are just for us. That's why they are so special.
ReplyDeleteFunny, I love eating chinese take out in Paris - Shanghai soup and then dump in their carrot salad and cabbage salad = Heaven!
ReplyDeleteMy mother always told me I had straight hair and bangs because of the Chinese food she ate constantly while pregnant with me. This was before PC times...
The place you go to sounds Taiwanese - they always have the nice girl waitresses. The food is out of this world in Taiwan if you haven't been.
Enough of my stream of consciousness!
Um goy sai
(Thank you in Cantonese)
Oh Vicki, such a delicious post!!! Thank you for sharing! And I adore the art in the post...you did not credit, so please say where it hales from!
ReplyDeleteThank you,
Vickie
Mmmm I can just smell the jasmine tea brewing in your gorgeous kitchen right now!
ReplyDeleteVicki, you have captured the essence of a 'favourite restaurant' oh so well, and you've instantly transported me to my own favourite local restaurant. Thank you. Lee :)
ReplyDeleteIt has been far too long since I have been down to Chinatown. Just lately we have been getting our Asian food fixes as takeaways - less embarrassing when the kids exclaim in loud voices how "gross this is" or similar!!! We really should take them out though, as the atmosphere etc is so much a part of the whole experience. I spent part of my childhood in Papua New Guinea and one of the only restaurants there at the time was a Chinese one which we visited regularly. I can't vouch for the of the authentic-ness of cuisine, but we loved it and I can thank all those visits for my ability to use chopsticks without losing too much food!
ReplyDeleteLoved reading this blog, as always!
Clare x
The last line of your post was very powerful. There really is something very comforting about rituals.
ReplyDeleteI came on over from Fifi Flowers...and so glad I did! What a lovely blog you have and gorgeous home! My husband and I visit San Francisco and take in China Town. It just wouldn't be complete without stopping in for a delicious meal! I do like routine but can adapt to change as well, good balance. Thanks for sharing! Luanne
ReplyDeleteHi Vicki...I love rituals and habits...they can be so very comforting...and I agree totally about the Chinese food...we all seem to eat it over here...There seems to be one in every town...Have a great weekend♥x
ReplyDeleteVickie, the photographs are close ups of a porcelain plate and painted cupboard I have at home - I took the tea box just for fun. xv
ReplyDeleteLove Chinese food. We went away for the weekend and shouted the family Chinese at home. We rang and ordered then drove down to pick it up (our favourite Chinese restaurant that has been there for decades - East of Melbourne).
ReplyDeleteVicki, I don't think you're old enough to remember but way back we used to take two or three saucepans down the street and return with them filled up! The days before plastic tubs. LBx
Another beautifully written post. I love the way you so eloquently enthuse over the everyday!
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